Mark 12:31
"The second is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is not another commandment greater than these."
*Strong's Ex. Conc. No. 4139
Neighbor: near, nearby
From the Greek word 'plésion' (pronounced play-see'-on): friend, any other person irrespective of race or religion with whom we live or whom we chance to meet.
WHO IS MY NEIGHBOR?
When a question that is asked every time this commandment is brought up, it is good to have the correct answer. And Jesus gave it in Luke 10:25-37 (The Good Samaritan).
One day an expert in the law stood up to test Him. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
“What is written in the Law?” Jesus replied. “How do you read it?”
He answered, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’ and ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
“You have answered correctly,” Jesus said. “Do this and you will live.”
But wanting to justify himself, he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
Jesus took up this question and said, “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him, beat him, and went away, leaving him half dead.
Now by chance a priest was going down the same road, but when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.
So too, when a Levite came to that spot and saw him, he passed by on the other side.
But when a Samaritan on a journey came upon him, he looked at him and had compassion. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him.
The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Take care of him,’ he said, ‘and on my return I will repay you for any additional expense.’
Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
“The one who showed him mercy,” replied the expert in the law.
Then Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”
“What is written in the Law?” Jesus replied. “How do you read it?”
He answered, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’ and ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
“You have answered correctly,” Jesus said. “Do this and you will live.”
But wanting to justify himself, he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
Jesus took up this question and said, “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him, beat him, and went away, leaving him half dead.
Now by chance a priest was going down the same road, but when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.
So too, when a Levite came to that spot and saw him, he passed by on the other side.
But when a Samaritan on a journey came upon him, he looked at him and had compassion. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him.
The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Take care of him,’ he said, ‘and on my return I will repay you for any additional expense.’
Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
“The one who showed him mercy,” replied the expert in the law.
Then Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”
Who is my neighbor? You. You are my neighbor. You are just as much my neighbor as the person living next door to me, just as much as the person(s) living with me. Anyone other than myself is my neighbor.
HOW DO I LOVE MY NEIGHBOR?
It's rather simple, really. The first five commandments tell us how to love God, the second five, how to love each other. Unless we do the first five, the second five will be impossible. Yes, we can still be nice to each other, even tolerant, to a degree, of each other. But unless we love God first, we cannot love our neighbor as ourselves, nor can we love each other the way God loves us.
God loves us and love comes from God. 1 John 4:7 "Beloved, let us love one another, because love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God."
God loves us because God IS love. 1 John 4:8 "Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love."
God extended His love towards mankind through the person of Jesus Christ, His Word Whom He wrapped in flesh and sent to die in our place, that the ones who believe this might have eternal life and live with God forever. John 13:34 "A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also must love one another."
An all-encompassing Love which covers all faults, all sins, all transgressions, all iniquities, all wrong-doings is how God loves us and how we are to love each other. Matthew 6:14 "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you."
To love my neighbor is to forgive my neighbor.
Matthew 6:12.
To love my neighbor is to show mercy to my neighbor.
Matthew 18:33.
To love my neighbor is to not carry a grudge against my neighbor, nor to take vengeance against my neighbor.
Leviticus 19:18.
To love my neighbor is to tell them the truth and not lie.
Ephesians 4:25
To love my neighbor is to forgive immediately after being angry at them.
Ephesians 4:26-27
To love my neighbor is live with honor and not take what is not mine.
Ephesians 4:28
To love my neighbor is to edify my neighbor, building them up and not tearing them down.
Ephesians 4:29
To love my neighbor is to not grieve the Holy Spirit.
Ephesians 4:30
To love my neighbor is to be kind and tenderhearted to one another.
Ephesians 4:31-32.
AS MYSELF
How do we love ourselves? Not everyone loves their self. We are always trying to change what we do not like about ourselves. Ultimately, we can only change so much of what we do not like. We need God to change us on the inside, in our hearts. Will be content with ourselves right away? Probably not. While some changes appear instant, the point of fact is that even the smallest change requires time.
The selfies we are so prone to taking only show the external changes in our faces and bodies. What if we took a selfie of our hearts? Do you think that would be just as wonderful to look at? It would if God's reflection showed in it.
Some of us find it hard to forgive ourselves when we've done something wrong, when we've sinned. I tell you, don't let the devil bring you down to his level. God has promised to forgive you when you admit to Him that you've sinned against Him. We are washed clean by the blood of Jesus Christ in whom we believe.
God forgives us. We forgive ourselves. We forgive each other.
God loves us. We love ourselves. We love each other. This love is evident in how we behave towards each other; the words we choose to use to one another; the attitudes (how we think) we have towards others. All of this is an expression of love towards God, an obedience to His command to "Love One Another".
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