It is not the woman's job to go looking for a husband: it is the man's job. Proverbs 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD."
The wife complements the husband. Adam went looking for the one who could fill the empty place in his heart, but could not find one. So God created Eve from one of Adam's ribs, that Adam would have the one who would complete him.
While Eve remains the one who was created in this way for Adam, God still creates godly women for godly men. Proverbs 31 does not describe the perfect woman, it describes the aspects of being a godly wife.
*Noble character (excellent morals and ethics)
*Trustworthy (dependable, reliable)
*Industrious (skillful, diligent, hard-working)
*Thoughtful of Others (considerate, kind)
*Financially Wise
*Strengthens Herself In The Lord
*She is Filled with The Holy Spirit
*She keeps her hands busy
*Generous heart and hands to the less fortunate
*Family is clothed well
*She is clothed in glory
*(cf. Proverbs 31:23 with Proverbs 12:4) She brings honor to her husband
*What she creates by her industry, she also sells
*(cf. Proverbs 31:25 with 1 Timothy 2:9-10) Self-discipline and self-control are evident in her
*Speaks the Word wisely, honestly and faithfully
*Watchful in prayer over her household
*Her children defend her honor and declare her righteousness in the Lord
*(cf. Proverbs 31:29 with Ephesians 5:27) Lives an overcoming life in the Word
*Fears the Lord
*Soul-winner (cf. Proverbs 11:30)
The godly wife is the foreshadow of the Bride of Christ. As the wife is, so the church is.
